1 yr after grandma's death

Time flies...My grandma had left us for a year le..Todae almost all of her children, grandchildren & greatgrandchildren went to pray. As usual, went to 9th floor to meet up den proceed off to the temple at holland road. One thing I juz dun understand. Everytime sae wan to meet 1st, but end up who turn up? Well, I shld sae all met up 1st except for da yee & er yee family. Why? Every time sae meet but where r they when its time to meet? For Er yee's case we still can understand. But tat da yee. Realli cant stand her lor..Yup, though she's my zhang bei but i still have to sae. Not oni mi, the rest of us also buay tahan her. For todae's praying, da yee asked er jiu to buy the box of things to burn for grandma. Asked him to buy nvm but she dun intend to go & fetch tat box of things to the temple. She expect er jiu to bring there. Hello? She jolly well shld noe tat er jiu no longer drive taxi, therefore no car. How the hell is he going to bring it there? Da yee's family has 3 cars lor. Dun tell mi none of the children are free to fetch? Not able to fit? Come on la..Zhuo ren zhuo dao di ma..Asked ppl buy liao at least muz do sth rite? Den er jiu, i also dunno him la..either blur or scared of da yee. Dun dare to voice out de. In the end call my mum to fetch. Mum got so fed up. This is not the 1st time le lor...Our car was also full den er jiu tried targeting san yee. But again, full. So somehow er jiu's son borrowed van from his boss. See la? Make things till so diff. Da yee cannt ownself buy ah? If she buy, prob all solved. argh... When i see those 3 cars of da yee's family, I damn buay song. While the rest of our cars are full, theirs will always be so empty, oni ppl came out of the car. Nth are on their hands. They are always last to be there, 1st to leave. Asked u all to come pray ah jia very diff izzit? Dun wan to come den dun come at all la!
Sometimes juz find the few of us(the cousins) very ke lian. All separated into grps. There are 21 of us & we were like broken up into 3 to 4 grps. Coz age gap lor..oldest 43, youngest being 9 oni..Tok wat la? Haiz...But sometimes it's quite fun though coz those earlier generation will tend to get confuse. Was very surprised todae coz I actually chit chatted abit wif Benny. Wahaha..Usually, we dun even sae hi de..Den todae i juz sae hi 1st den later tok abt wat course i taking n uni stuffs. Found it weird at 1st coz i felt as though i was toking to a stranger when he's actually my cousin. Haiz..Tat's the prob if u dun tok to each n every of ur cousins. Den as for his bro, johnny. His looks changed le..Almost couldnt recognise him. He looked kinda old. Being the always very kind & thoughtful xiao jiu, he bought drinks & snacks for us. Very sweet lor..Oni he will do this things. We started to get bored over there coz they seems to be waiting for ah jia to "finish" up the food. Went over to the other side (where the urn was) to pray ah jia. Pei Ching & I were saying next time when we leave this world, where will our ashes be placed? Will there be sufficient space for us? Maybe ours will end up in the sea? After praying, went back to 9th floor for lunch. Wonder y need so mani ppl in the kitchen. One person cook can liao ma..dunno y all muz crowd in the kitchen arguing abt how the food shld be cook, shouting all over the place.

Met up wif Hui Mei, Tobbie, Qiuling & Pauline at YiXing Xuan Teahouse. We all got a shocked when we saw the outside. It's so much diff from Tea Chapter. YiXing Xuan dun specialise in tea oni. They also sell other food stuffs. Can tell that the ppl over there are not realli professional in brewing tea coz the guy anyhow brew de. In the end, the tea didnt taste tat nice. Lucky we went to tea chapter 1st & learnt all the correct stuffs if not our ssm will suffer.

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